You know, its safe to say that we expect a lot from our partner in just about any relationship, and sometimes their love and devotion to us isn't enough to keep us satisfied. In some of the most important relationships in our lives, we are forced to face reality, as to whether or not we are just hanging on for the sole purpose of having someone to fall back on, or if we truly wouldnt wan't to change anything.
Well, change is inevitable, and although we think that everything will always be the same. sooner or later we have to wake up and smell the flowers. So is it really our fault for not noticing the signs of change? Perhaps something like this is always expected, or at least thought about from both sides. And perhaps its not. A friend of mine, hes 24, and hes been living with this girl for over three years now, and from what I underatand things have been going great. But due to the fact that she has been creating excuses for not pushing the relationship to the next level (marriage) he gave her an choice. Either they stay together and get married, or call it quits. Due to the fact that shes against marriage, due to her last failed experience, they have decided to go their seperate ways. Overall, from an outsiders point of view, do you feel that hes selfish in forcing her into something shes not ready for? Being that he has sacrificed his relationship for all of the wrong reasons.
Now personally, I don't think that marriage is always inevitable, sometimes what isn't broken ashouldn't necessarily be fixed. But still, I can understand where hes coming from, in how hes planning for the future, but hen again being that she chose not to even think about this decision, perhaps dshe was never all that into the relationhip to bgin with. I guess i'm just wondering whether or not you would re-act this way if the tables were turned?
And overall, whats the longest relationship that you've ever been in?
-Joseph
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