Originally Posted by: quickfingersvalid point indeed. well, you might take me as a little more of a pansy than i actually am from reading all of that, becuase when i have my head on my shoulders, im pretty cool about all this stuff. its just those fleeting moments of questioning myself that leads me to rediculous conclusions. but thank you nonetheless.

On the contrary my friend. I would never suggest that you're anything even remotely close to a pansy. If having moments of doubt makes one a pansy then I must have been queen for a day continously since the late 70's. Love/lust/attraction makes us all a little spooked and a little crazy and more than a little bit off-kilter. That's a part of it. When I feel like that, I know that I am really into the woman. Man that's a sweet feeling. Scary but sweet.

I am on board with the others. You have to tell her. The art is how you tell her, how you show her. Good luck. Hope it works out the way you want.