first off all if you want to recognize chord scale steps make sure you know all the 12 major, minor and 7 chords, then learn ear training by starting to listen to old time rock and roll and see if you can pick up the chord steps there ( only 3 chords most off the time ). Don't try to recognize the exact chord unless you are born with absolute hearing, it won't work, one day you'll be able to guess the chord and after a few weeks you'll be way off, like I said before; try to recognize the scale steps ( explained in roman numerals , think Anders, not sure ) then learn intervals and how to recognize them by ear.

Don't start to run before you learned to crawl, got the idea that people here want to do things experienced musicians are doing while they barely know a few chords.

Herman