The thing I've figured out is that you don't even talk to girls about your music. They don't care. And you don't play for them unless its a chart topper, they'll just look at you with a blank stare or start talking to some other guy. Trying to get the appreciation of someone tht doesn't understand your talent is pointless. I'm with you though mungy keep music brutally fast and unforgiving but when the ladies are around just set your instrument down and start talking to them. You'll get a better response. It's not the 80's anymore chicks don't dig metal.