Originally Posted by: maggior
No being prepared is a pet peeve of mine and I hold myself to the same standard. It's why trying to figure out songs in a group setting doesn't work for me - I rather sort it out on my own and come back later.

You have the wrong mind set. A band is like a family!

If each brother and sister runs off and works through what ever... and they return thinking they have it all worked out. Only to find the siblings came up with there own answer. Now everyone is mad because no one will listen to their idea that is going to work. It is amazing how fast a family can get pissy and little headed.

Nothing gets done until everyone sits down around the family table and talks it out as a family group or "band group"