Goodluck on finding an amp,as there are so many these days. Why is a tube amp out of the question?.
I have a blackstar ht5rw and its an awsome amp.
Loud enough for small venues and it has an emulated headphone jack. Sounds amazin through headphones for practice without bothering anyone.

And i have a Marshall dsl15 combo which to me sounds great. There both great for classic rock ,blues through in a dist pedal now ur playing metal.
Just a thought imo. Does it have to be new. Because you can find great deals on reverb.com. blackstar id series are great non tube amps. Allot of noise on youtube about them. Good luck.