First time They ask play you kindly reply, "sorry I'm busy"
The second time You say. a little louder, "I'm busy."
The third time you are up-set and scream, "I told you I'm busy"
Look up voice, tempo and dynamics
Terms can be found here
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Italian_musical_terms_used_in_English#Voices
Keep working at it, you'll get it