I would like to learn basic theory, get more scales down( how many do you tacle at once? ) , increase my jazz chord vocabulary...I really dont know any songs but have some tabs for things Ive started and abandoned

I think you answered your own questions :) What I did was start with a pretty big list. The list got shorter as I decided exactly what I wanted to do and exactly where I needed to spend the most time. For me if was chords so I practiced chords first each session. In addition to working my way through fund 2 chord stuff I found other individual lessons I also did at the same time.