Yeh, i know that feeling. However, if the in bed thing happens with lyrics it can be really satisfying. That happened with my first ever song. With the music its not so easy though. I can hardly ever put my own ideas onto the fretboard, but when i wrote songs with the singer in my old band, he came up with the ideas and i could put them straight onto the fretboard. Ah, thoses were the days... Then i got kicked outta tha band. My own band that i formed!!! Ah well, **** happens. Musical differences my ARSE...