Thanks, I needed that. Now I remember all those things people use to call me "wise" for saying ( instead of calling me "headbanger" ). But I do disagree that the violin player did not sacrifice. If he's played violin since he was 2, he has sacrificed ALOT. ALOT of time, ALOT of social rep, and EVERYthing else he could have dedicated his life to. To do anything worth dedicating a life to, and love it, one must sacrifice. Remember that. This person seems like he must have sacrificed alot.